How Sanctuary Honors the Traditions

Anonymity, Recovery, and Public Mission

This document exists because we take the Traditions seriously — and because we want to explain clearly why Sanctuary's public mission does not violate them. Written by people in recovery, for people in recovery.

Every family that Sanctuary serves began with someone who believed recovery deserves support.

We Love These Programs. We Owe Our Lives to Them.

This document exists because we take the Traditions seriously — and because we want to explain clearly why Sanctuary's public mission does not violate them. We are not looking for loopholes. We are applying the Traditions faithfully, as they were written and intended.

The Traditions We Honor

Tradition Eleven

Attraction Rather Than Promotion

"Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films."

Tradition Twelve

Principles Before Personalities

"Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities."

These words matter deeply to us. They are not obstacles to work around — they are principles we live by. Everything Sanctuary does is built with these Traditions in mind.

Why Anonymity Exists

In 1946, Bill Wilson published a landmark article in the AA Grapevine addressing the question of anonymity. At the time, several well-known public figures had openly identified as AA members in the press. When some of those individuals relapsed publicly, it created a crisis of confidence in the fellowship itself.

The lesson was clear: when a single person becomes the public face of AA, their personal struggles become AA's public struggles. Anonymity protects the program from being represented — or misrepresented — by any one individual.

This was never about shame. It was about wisdom. The Traditions recognize that no single person can carry the weight of representing a spiritual program to the entire world. Anonymity keeps the focus on principles, not personalities.

The Scope of the Traditions

What the Traditions DO Say

  • Members should not identify themselves as members of AA or NA in public media
  • Anonymity protects the fellowship from being represented by any single person
  • The purpose is humility and collective well-being: principles before personalities
  • AA and NA maintain a policy of attraction rather than promotion

What the Traditions Do NOT Say

  • They do not say no one can discuss recovery publicly
  • They do not bind non-fellowship organizations to fellowship rules
  • They do not prohibit acknowledging that recovery from addiction exists
  • They do not say recovery is a secret that must never be spoken aloud
  • They do not prevent a person from sharing their own story without identifying their fellowship

A Fundamental Distinction

Bound by the Traditions

  • AA/NA members speaking publicly as members of AA or NA
  • AA and NA as organizations — they operate under their own Traditions

Not Bound by the Traditions

  • Sanctuary for Change Foundation — we are NOT an AA or NA group. We are an independent 501(c)(3). The Traditions do not apply to us.
  • Individual people discussing their own recovery without identifying their specific fellowship membership
  • Treatment centers, advocacy organizations, and other outside entities

This distinction is not a technicality. It is fundamental to how the Traditions were designed. AA's own literature makes clear that the Traditions govern AA members and AA groups — not the entire world.

These Are Not the Same Thing

Concept 1

Twelve-Step Anonymity

A tradition binding members of AA and NA at the level of press, radio, and films. It means a member does not publicly identify themselves as a member of a specific fellowship in media. It is a spiritual principle about humility and protecting the collective.

Concept 2

Personal Recovery Privacy

An individual's right to keep their health information private. This is HIPAA territory — federal privacy law — not a fellowship tradition. A person's medical and behavioral health records are protected by law regardless of whether they attend any fellowship. Sanctuary fiercely protects this privacy for every person we serve.

Concept 3

Talking About Recovery as a Concept

This is advocacy, education, and stigma reduction. Saying "recovery is possible" or "people in recovery deserve support" has nothing whatsoever to do with the Traditions. This is public health communication. Organizations like SAMHSA, Faces and Voices of Recovery, and countless advocacy groups do this daily.

These three things are not the same. Conflating them serves no one — least of all the people who need help.

We Apply This Test to Everything We Do

"Does this action identify a specific person as a member of AA or NA at the level of press, radio, or films?"

If the answer is no, it is not a Traditions issue. This test is simple, clear, and faithful to what the Traditions actually say.

Common Questions Answered

Applying the Test

"Sanctuary says a parent is 'in recovery.'"
Does not violate the Traditions. This does not identify fellowship membership. A person can be in recovery through any pathway.
"A parent tells their attorney they attend AA."
Protected by attorney-client privilege. Sanctuary does not disclose this information and is not involved in that communication.
"Sanctuary's website discusses recovery from addiction."
Not a Traditions issue. This is advocacy and public education. It does not identify any individual or their fellowship membership.
"A peer advocate shares their own story at a community event."
A personal choice, not a Traditions issue. They share their experience of recovery without identifying as an AA or NA member at the event.
"Sanctuary reports to a court that a parent is engaged in recovery support services."
Refers to Sanctuary's own services. It does not identify meeting attendance or fellowship membership.
"A parent's recovery is mentioned in a custody proceeding."
Recovery status (not fellowship membership) may be relevant to parenting capacity. Sanctuary never discloses which program, if any, a parent attends.

Our Commitments in Practice

What Sanctuary Does

  • Advocates for recovery as a concept
  • Treats all recovery pathways equally — AA, NA, SMART, MAT, therapy, and more
  • Supports people in maintaining whatever level of anonymity they choose
  • Never requires 12-step participation as a condition of service
  • Never shares meeting attendance information without explicit written consent

What Sanctuary Never Does

  • Never identifies anyone's AA or NA membership publicly
  • Never represents itself as affiliated with any 12-step fellowship
  • Never speaks on behalf of AA, NA, or any fellowship
  • Never uses the AA or NA name, logos, or literature in a way that implies affiliation
  • Never shares meeting attendance with courts, attorneys, or CPS without consent

We Are Protective of These Programs Too.

We get it. They saved our lives. If you have questions or concerns about how Sanctuary interacts with the Traditions, we welcome that conversation. We are not here to undermine what saved us. We are here to help people who need what these programs offer — and who also need legal support, peer advocacy, and a system that does not punish them for having a disease.

We believe that honoring the Traditions and advocating for recovery are not in conflict. In fact, we believe they serve the same purpose: helping more people find and sustain recovery, while protecting the integrity of the programs that make recovery possible.

If you see something we are doing that concerns you, tell us. We will listen. We will explain. And if we have made a mistake, we will correct it. That is what living in recovery looks like — accountability, willingness, and service.

References

We encourage anyone with questions about the Traditions to read these source materials directly. The wisdom in them is profound, and it supports — rather than contradicts — the work of advocacy organizations like Sanctuary.

When you get better, your children get better.

Questions or concerns?

We welcome the conversation. Reach out to us directly — we will listen, explain, and respond in good faith.

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